To register as a member of MyBouma.com or use this Site, you must be of legal marriageable age as per the Laws

Registering as a member of MyBouma.com is an very easy process. You can access member registration by clicking the FREE Registration or Registration or Register Now link in the Site and fill up the registration form.

Yes you can! In the registration form you can specify your relationship with the person on whose behalf you're registering a matrimonial account. Register Now with MyBouma.com.

Yes you can. You can choose to keep the same Phone number; if you have registered profiles for more than one member in the family. However, except the family members the number of profiles you can keep the same phone number is restricted in two.

Yes. One can register a profile for ‘Self’ as well as on behalf of Son, Daughter, Sibling or a Relative/Friend.

Registration on MyBouma.com is FREE. You can Register and create your Profile of absolutely free. Register now to find your perfect partner. Once you are a member you can use all of the features of making contact, sending messages to viewing of contact details etc without any charges or payments. Just Join (Register) and enjoy all the features. Here are some benefits you are getting as a Member absolutely free:
1. Registration / Membership - Free!!
2. Create your Profile - Free!!
3. Add Photo Album, with upto 9 photos - Free!!
4. Add Partner Preferences for the kind of person you are looking - Free!!
5. Add your contact details - Free!!
6. Add additional Profile information - Free!!
7. Search and View Profiles - Free!!
8. Browse Matches as per your Partner Preferences - Free!!
9. Express interest in other members and respond to members who express interest in you - Free!!
10. In-site messaging - Free!!
11. Get Summary - expressed interest summary - messaging summary etc - Free!!
12. Create Shortlists - Free!!
13. Create Favorites List - Free!!
14. Create Blocked List - Free!!
15. Privacy features - Free!!
16. Matchmaking - Free!!
17. Multiple Search Options - Free!!
18. Contact/ Express Interest in Members you like - Free!!
19. Accept/ Decline (Get Notified and Respond) an interest to Members who contact you- Free!!
20. Send Messages to accepted interests- Free!!
21. View Contact Details (both emails and phone numbers) - Free!!
22. Show your contact details to other members- Free!!
23. Send personalized email/messages to members you like - Free!!
24. Send chat requests to members- Free!!
25. Access to all advanced features / Advanced Search feature - Free!!
26. Access the site's Chat Lounge - Free!!
27. Members can initiate and reply to email messages - Free!!
28. Use of Instant Messenger system - Free!!
29. Enhanced support by our support team - Free!!
30. Send Unlimited Messages - Free!!
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Absolutely Nothing!!

Yes, MyBouma.com Matrimonial site is 100% FREE!!!
Register Profile - Free!!
Search profiles - Free!!
Contact to members - Free!!
View contact details - Free!!
Matchmaking - Free!!
Photo Album (up to 8 photos) - Free!!
In-site messaging - Free!!
Privacy features - Free!!

Marriage is a serious task of life. We are understand its importance. Our aim is to gather and share detailed all necessary information to interested members. The more details you provide the more likely you will be contacted by other members. So, please take the time to complete your profile. Register Now with MyBouma.com

No. All the mandatory fields have to be filled in order to complete the registration process. These mandatory fields provide essential information about you to other members who view your profile. It is very important to get better matrimonial experience and best results.Register Now with MyBouma.com

'Special Cases' is a category, created to refer to members who are physically or mentally challenged or have physical abnormalities. 'Special Cases' also includes- accident, Thalassemia Major, Hearing Impaired, Speech Impaired, Visually Impaired, Handicapped, Cancer Survivor, Diabetic, Leucoderma and HIV positive members.

Do not use your matrimonial profile to display your contact details. Do not display your contact details to your profile. Do not make commercial use of its and do not include content that is vulgar, obscene or racist. Be as detailed as possible while creating profile. Register Now with MyBouma.com

Every profile posted on MyBouma.com is associated with a unique e-mail address. You may have received this error message because you or someone else has already posted a profile using the given e-mail ID. If you think your e-mail ID is being used by someone else, please send us an e-mail from that e-mail address and let us know.

The partner preferences describes your preferences for the marriage partner. Other members can view your partner preferences and if they think that their profile matches your preferences, they can express interest to you. You can edit your partner preferences any time.
Also, our automated Matchmaking service matches your partner preferences with other members' personal details and gives you a list of those matching profiles.

All profiles registered on the site undergo a basic screening, before it is made visible and searchable on the site. This process may take up to 1-2 days. Most profiles are approved within 24 hours of registration. Your profile will not be visible to other members until it is approved.

To register as a member of MyBouma.com or use this Site, you must be of legal marriageable age as per the Laws.

Registration on MyBouma.com is very simple. Click on the FREE Registration or Registration or Register Now link and fill the form with all relevant data in the fields given. As soon as you complete your profile, the registration is complete and now you can login/use the services at MyBouma.com.

As a member you can avail all our free services as long as you want.

The Basic Membership will last, as long as you want! MyBouma.com is always provide free Basic membership.

Yes, your contact information will always be hidden to members for the sake of security. We will keep your contact information inaccessible until your approval.

The reason of that, there an existing member at MyBouma.com with the same Email ID, it could be you or some other member. In any case, the only way out is to get registered with a different Email ID, which is unique. If you think your e-mail ID is being used by someone else, please send us an e-mail from that e-mail address and let us know.

Basic Membership: Any individual can register and immediately may become a Member of the Service at no cost by accepting the site's Terms of Use. As a Basic Member, you will have the ability to participate in some, but not all, of the features and services available within the Service. Basic members can use the site's basic features. This includes communicating with other members by sending interests, using the site's search features and Advanced Search feature. You can Upload 3 pictures, doesn't allow private albums, profile will be include in search results- but not in Top Position of search results, Send messages to mailbox, Members can send very limited messages per day (max 5), Send & Receive up to 5-10 Bio-data per day, up to 50 profiles allowed to saved, doesn't show Premium/Paid Membership Logo, Can't View contact details, Can't Show your contact details, Can't View contact information etc. Basic members cannot access the Chat Lounge. These advanced features require an upgrade to Premium/Paid Membership. From time to time, MyBouma.Com may remove the profiles of Basic Member (non-subscribers) without any reason. For FREE Registration or Upgrade to Premium/Paid Membership.

Premium/Paid Membership: With a paid membership, you can seamlessly connect with your prospects and get more responses. In order to access additional features and services, including the ability to communicate with other Members, you must become a paying subscriber to the Service. Members can elect to Upgrade to Premium/Paid Membership. Premium/Paid members have access to all advanced features of the site. In addition to all the features available to Basic members, Paid members can initiate and reply to email messages, initiate and reply to instant messages and access the site's Chat Lounge. Here are some key benefits of Premium/Paid Members: Send personalized messages to members you like, Send chat requests, Send Live/ video chat request, View contact details, Show your contact details, Send personalized email, View contact information, Paid membership logo that shows your seriousness, Top Position in search results, Enhanced support by our support team, Upload more pictures (upto 8), Allow private album, Send good number of messages per day (up to 20-50), Send and Receive upto 20-50 Bio-data per day, up to 500 profiles allowed to saved, Profile Review by MyBouma.Com Specialist, etc. Members will also get 'Profile Boost'. Through this service you get featured at the top of relevant searches, your profile gets sent at the top of daily recommendation to your matching profiles. Get exclusively featured in Match of the day notifications, and listing on Home page. Upgrade to Paid Membership, follow the Membership Upgrade or Membership Plan or Upgrade Payment or Payment Methods section link. MyBouma.Com may remove the profiles due to any irregularity (irregularities) of members without refund money.

Follow the Membership Upgrade or Membership Plan or Upgrade Payment or Payment Methods section link to view the membership plans and benefits. You may further choose from the multiple for with Safe & secure payment gateway for online transactions.

Please go to the My Account page by login your account and then follow the Profile Update link to edit your Partner Preferences. After you've made your changes, click on SAVE at the bottom of the page to save.

After login you will see the 'My Account' menu. The 'My Account' is your feature, from here you can go any page on the site and where important information about your membership and profile status are provided. In the My Account page has few important sections:

Change Password: Here you can change your Password. After you've made your changes, click on CHANGE or SAVE at the bottom of the page to save or change.

Profile Update: MyBouma.com provides you with a complete profile management system from the 'My Account' page located on the left, or top or bottom side of page of the site. From 'My Account' page, go to the 'Update Profile' link. From there, you can view and edit your personal information. In this section you can Update your profile. After you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

Inbox: This section divided into three parts, named 'Message', 'Sent Message' and 'Delete Message'. 'Message' part contains the email messages that you have received. From this part you can view your all messages including new unread messages. You can reply to, and delete your any message(s). You can reply by clicking the 'reply' link on the incoming email body. Here you can see, who viewed your profile. Here you can see who is interested about you. Here you can see, who send you interest. Here you can see, who expressed interest about you. Here you can see, who like your profile. Here you can see, who send you request.
'Sent Message' part contains the email messages that you have sent to others. From this part you can view your all messages that you have sent.
'Delete Message' part contains the email messages that you have deleted from 'Message' and 'Sent Message' part. From this part you can view your all messages that you have deleted.
To send the same Personalized Message to many members (or any member), you can see the previous sent message in email body, and use it. Just copy the message, paste it and send.

Update Partner Preference: This section is located on the left, or top or bottom side of 'My Account' page of the site. From 'My Account' page, go to the 'Update Partner Preference' link. From there, you can view and edit your partner preference information. Partner Preference means what type of life partner/spouse you want. It is very important to put the preferences what's you want. Not only that, you will get the response and match based on this preferences. In this section after you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

My Photo: This is your photo gallery. This section has your photo that currently appears in profile page. You can "Add Photo" or 'Delete Photo' from this section. In this photo gallery you can Add or upload upto 5 photos. After you've made your changes, click "Submit" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation. If you face any problem to add your photo or can not add then send your photographs via email to us, mentioning your 'Profiles ID' and email, from your email address. We'll add photograph at your profile.

Change Profile Photo: Profile photo means that is your main and mandatory photo. This section has your only one photo that currently appears in search results and profile pages. You can update your profile photo' from this section. After you've upload your photo or made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile picture will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation. If you face any problem to upload your photo or can not update then send your photograph via email to us, mentioning your 'Profiles ID' and email, from your email address. We'll add photograph at your profile.

Blocked List: There is one place to block another member to contacting you. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The block feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Block' button and that member will be prevented from sending you any message or emails. To unblock a blocked member, you have to come to 'My Account' page. Click the Blocked List, check the box of the member you wish to unblock and click the "unblock" button. To block a member from instant messenger, just click the BLOCK button in the IM(instant messenger) chat window.

Favorite List: There is one place to add a member to your favorites list. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The 'Add Favourite' feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Favorites' button and that member will added to your favorites list. To remove a member from your 'Favorites List', you have to come to 'My Account' page. In the 'Favorites List' check the box of the member you wish to remove from the list and click 'Delete.'

Chat Lounge/ Messenger: To access the Chat, simply click the 'Messenger' link in the 'My Account' page. Then will open the Chat Lounge page, where you can participate in chat sessions. It is important for members to realize that, due to the popularity and effectiveness of the Web Messenger Chat system, the Chat Lounge activity is very light.

Online Friend: This section is located on the top side of 'My Account' page. In this section you can see all of your Friend members who are currently in online. From this section you can search any specific online friend too. To chat with any friend just click on the 'Members Name or Picture' link in the right side of the page. The page that appears will show you all members of the opposite gender who are currently in online.

Log Out/ Sign Out: By clicking this link you will Log Out or Sign Out from the Site. This link is located on the top side of each page throughout the site and left side of My Account page.

Send Message: The 'Send Message' link is located in the member profile page. From this link you can send email message to the member. The 'Send Message' link is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page.

Match Alerts: Match alerts are system recommendations sent to you on the basis of your 'Partner Preference' and also on the history of your interest & acceptances. You may check these profiles and see if they are of interest to you and hence can contact the members accordingly. You can see the profiles of other members in your Profile Page whose partner profiles match with your personal profile. You will find this under 'Match Member' menu on the Profile Page.

Members in Online: This section is located on the top side of Home page. In this section you can see all members are currently in online.

Yes, you can always. Login to your Account and click the link "Change Email/Password" running under "MyAccount" heading and update your contact information.

Once registration is complete, your profile will be checked by our editorial team, and you will be notified of approval generally within 1-2 days. Most profiles are approved within 24 hours of registration. Your profile will not be visible to other members until it is approved. In the meantime, you can still login and use the site's basic features with the username and password that you originally used to register with. For best results, make sure that your browser cookies are ON and that you are using browsers Internet Explorer version 6 or the latest version of Firefox.

All profiles registered on the site undergo a basic screening, before it is made visible and searchable on the site. This process may take up to 1-2 days. Most profiles are approved within 24 hours of registration. Your profile will not be visible to other members until it is approved.

We only accept profiles of decent, accurate and respectable members who are seriously looking for relationships and marriage. We do not accept inappropriate and abusive profile content at all. If your profile was not approved, it is likely for one or all of the following reasons:
-Your profile information is incomplete and does not meet our minimum standards. Please complete all required fields in English.
-You added contact information (such as email address or telephone number or address) to your profile's Personal Information and Partner Preference.
-Your profile contains unacceptable language such as abusive or inappropriate text or pictures. -You have uploaded unacceptable photos to your profile.
-We are unable to verify the email address and telephone number you provided.
-Your profile information is not matched with your documentation.
-We are unable to verify your profile information with documentation you provided.

Your Email address acts as your login ID/ Username at the site. Besides that, we send matches which confirm to your Partner Preferences criteria, at the Email address specified by you. In addition, in case you don't visit MyBouma.com too often, we keep the information at your mailbox regarding any inquiry sent to you and many more updates related to MyBouma.com.

Please note that Duplicate (more than one) profile creation for any reason is not allowed on the site, and system will automatically remove multiple profiles. So keep only one profile in search. Another important things is your Email address. Your Email address acts as your Username/ Login ID at the site. So you can not use same Email address for more than one profile. If you need help, please call us or write to us at info@ MyBouma.com.

MyBouma Offices: Thank you very much for showing interest in MyBouma Services. Please you can come to our offices to pay.
Bangladesh Office:
Road # 5, House # 6, Kaderabad Housing Society, Mohammadpur, Dhaka 1219
Mobile: +88-01920218908, 01797303095, 01953337575

USA Office:
37-30, 74th Street, #D2, Jackson Heights, NY 11372
Mobile: +1-646-280-9950

Bkash:
From any Bkash centre you can send money to the mentioned mobile number.
Mobile: +88-01920218908, 01797303095, 01953337575
Western Union or other money transfer companies:
If you are using Western Union, Please send to
In Bangladesh:
Md Aminul Islam Sarker
Road # 5, House # 6, Kaderabad Housing Society, Mohammadpur, Dhaka 1219
Mobile: +88-01920218908, 01797303095, 01953337575

In USA:
BD WORLD GROUP INC
37-30, 74th Street, #D2, Jackson Heights, NY 11372
Mobile: +1-646-280-9950
(send us the transaction number & user id via this email address info@mybouma.com or SMS to +88-01920218908, 01797303095, 01953337575 or +1-646-280-9950 )
By Courier:
Make payment via any courier service.
In Bangladesh:
Md Aminul Islam Sarker
Road # 5, House # 6, Kaderabad Housing Society, Mohammadpur, Dhaka 1219
Mobile: +88-01920218908, 01797303095, 01953337575
In USA:
BD WORLD GROUP INC
37-30, 74th Street, #D2, Jackson Heights, NY 11372
Mobile: +1-646-280-9950

Thank you very much for showing interest in MyBouma Services. In order to make a payment through cheque, all you need to do is to write a cheque, and mail it or hand over it to the specific address. Please write down User ID on the cheque. This facility is only for Bangladesh and USA residents.
By Demand Draft / Cheque:

In Bangladesh:
If you live in the Bangladesh and want to make payment by cheque, please make the cheque payable to 'Md Aminul Islam Sarker' and mail or hand over to Md Aminul Islam Sarker
Road # 5, House # 6, Kaderabad Housing Society,
Mohammadpur, Dhaka 1219
Mobile: +88-01920218908, 01797303095, 01953337575
In USA:
If you live in the USA and want to make payment by cheque, please make the cheque payable to 'BD World Group Inc' and mail or hand over to
BD World Group Inc
37-30, 74th Street, #D2, Jackson Heights, NY 11372
Mobile: +1-646-280-9950

PayPal (Visa/Master Card/ Discover/Amex):
Visa, Master Card, Discover, Amex to Make Online Payment. It's the most safe, secure and quickest mode of payment.
PayPal Account email: alamgir2004@gmail.com

Credit Card or Debit Card (Bank Card):
Use Visa, Master Card, Discover, Amex to Make Online Payment. It's the most safe, secure and quickest mode of payment.
Checkout (Visa/Master Card/ Discover/Amex):
Visa, Master Card, Discover, Amex to Make Online Payment. It's the most safe, secure and quickest mode of payment.
Other Payment Options: Visa / Master Card / Discover by FAX

Click on the 'Registration' or 'FREE Registration' or 'Register Now' link and complete the fields to create your profile.

Posting your matrimonial profile on MyBouma.com is very easy and completely FREE of cost. All you need to do is to fill in our 'Registration' or 'FREE Registration' form.

Not at all, it's absolutely free of cost.

Yes. You can choose to keep the same Phone number; if you have registered profiles for more than one member in the family. However, except family member, the number of active profiles you can keep with the same phone number is restricted to two.

No. Email address ensures the uniqueness of a profile at the site, so there you can only post a single profile with your Email address. Your Email address acts as your Login ID/ Username at the site. Besides that, we send matches which confirm to your Partner Preferences criteria, at the Email address specified by you. In addition, in case you don't visit MyBouma.com too often, we keep the information at your mailbox regarding any inquiry sent to you and many more updates related to MyBouma.com.

You can update your existing profile at any time you want. Just login to your My Account page and click on Profile Update link to edit the details you want to update.

Not to worry. You can get your profile number from your My Account page after Login at MyBouma.com.

Yes, it is. You have to attach at least one photograph.

Images in .jpeg/.jpg, .png & .gif format and under 500 kb in size can be easily uploaded. Following are three ways by which you can attach the photo with your profile.
(1) At the time of posting your profile. Just browse your photo and upload it.
(2) Any time from your folder. Login to your Account, Click on "Add / Edit Photo" menu given under "My Photos" heading and upload your photos. A total of 8 photos can be uploaded.
(3) In either case, if you face problem then send a mail with your photos to us. info@mybouma.com

Your Profile becomes visible and searchable to users of MyBouma.com after validation of data. Validation of listing is usually completed within 1-2 days (24 to 48 hours). Once registration is complete, your profile will be checked by our editorial team, and you will be notified of approval. Most profiles are approved within 24 hours of registration. Your profile will not be visible to other members until it is approved. In the meantime, you can still Login and use the site's basic features with the username and password that you originally used to register with. For best results, make sure that your browser cookies are ON and that you are using at least browsers Internet Explorer version 6 or the latest version of Firefox.

Once we authenticate your details, we activate your account, and send to you a Email of confirmation and also allocate you a Profile Number. You can view your profile at the site by entering your Profile Number in the link "Search by Profile ID" given at the home page, and all pages under "Search Profile" title.

The apparent reason is that you may have furnished some invalid, irrelevant or fake information while posting your profile, which may have been disapproved after having undergone the inspection. The information you relay to us may not be suitable to be published online, so we delete the profile altogether and subsequently inform you regarding the same, considering that you can post your profile afresh with genuine information. Another important things is your Email address. Another reason is that there is an existing member at MyBouma.com with the same Email address, it could be you or some other member. Your Email address acts as your Username/ Login ID at the site. So you can not use same Email address for more than one profile. In any case, the only way out is to get registered with a different Email address, which is unique. Please note that Duplicate (more than one) profile creation for any reason is not allowed on the site, and system will automatically remove multiple profiles. So, keep only one profile in search. Another important things is your Email address. We only accept profiles of decent, accurate and respectable members who are seriously looking for relationships and marriage. We do not accept inappropriate and abusive profile content at all. If your profile was deleted, it is likely for one or all of the following reasons:
-Your profile information is incomplete and does not meet our minimum standards. Please complete all required fields in English.
-You added contact information (such as email address or telephone number or address) to your profile's Personal Information and Partner Preference.
-Your profile contains unacceptable language such as abusive or inappropriate text or pictures.
-You have uploaded unacceptable photos to your profile.
-We are unable to verify the email address and telephone number you provided.
-Your profile information is not matched with your documentation.
-We are unable to verify of profile information with documentation you provided.
If you need help, please contact us or write to us at info@ MyBouma.com.

Sure, you can. In order to delete your profile, write to the site Administrator through the 'Contact Us' link located at the bottom of the page. Request that your profile be deleted. You must include your Username (registered email address), password, profile number, mobile number, date of birth; and (type the answer) answer your security question that you have provided to create your MyBouma account. This process will protect you from unauthorized deletion of your profile. If your provided all information including your answer and date of birth is correct then you will get a temporary cancellation confirmation to your email with a link. You have to follow the link and login your account using your Username and password, and you must have to cancel your subscription on My Account page, then click on 'Cancel My Membership' button and post your feedback to let us know the exact reason for withdrawing your membership.

You can send Interest' to people you like. If they accept your interest, you would be able to view their contact details, however you will need to Upgrade to Paid membership.

As a free member, you are entitled to "Express Interest". A regulation message will be sent on your behalf informing the profile holder that you wish to correspond to him or her. That member can accept or decline your interest. As a paid member, the contact information is open to you upon member approval. Initially, you can send your own message - called the "Personalized Message", where we don't intervene in your correspondence with the profile holder(s). You can send any number of Personalized Messages to a profile holder once it is accepted from the other end, which may even contain your contact information.

Your contact information will always be hidden to members for the sake of security. We will keep your contact information inaccessible until your approval.

Yes. You can set ‘Filters’ on your criteria so that only relevant people are able to contact you, and if people do not meeting your criteria would be filtered out. Generally ‘Filters’ has to be set on the 'Partner Preference' page itself automatically.

Yes you can. You can subscribe for 'Match Alerts' from the 'My Account' section where system would send the best recommendations/Matches for you. Please ensure to check junk/spam folder in your mailbox, in case you are unable to receive such mails in your Inbox.

You can set ‘Filters’ on your criteria so that only relevant people are able to contact you, and if people do not meeting your criteria would be 'filtered out'. Generally ‘Filters’ has to be set on the 'Partner Preference' page itself automatically. Even if someone not meeting your criteria sends you an interest, all such interests would be sent to separate ‘Filtered Interests’ folder. You may review and accept such profiles at your discretion. Please note that “Filter ON” would mean that the Filters have been set & activated, whereas “Filter OFF” would indicate this is not set by you yet.

Yes. There is a limit to the number of Interests can send in a day/week/month/overall, as a Free or a Paid member.
1. As a Free member, can express interest to 100 per weekly, and 400 members per monthly/overall.
2. As a Paid member, can express interest to 20-50 per daily, 400 per weekly, and 600-1500 per monthly. There is no overall limit (or capping) for sending interests as long as you are a Paid member. However, this is Subject to monthly limits at the discretion of MyBouma.com.
3. Please refer to the Terms of Use (Terms & Conditions) for more information.

No. Other members can see only your profile but can not view your contact address, phone number and email unless you want. MyBouma does not allow other members to see your contact address, phone number and email for privacy and security reasons. Members are allowed to contact through MyBouma via email.

After login your account you can send email message from the 'My Account' page. Click the 'Send Message' link. In this page you have to type in the recipient's Profile ID and your message, and then click 'Send' button. A confirmation page will appear asking you if you would like to send another email to the same member or if you would like to return to the previous page.

You can also send an email message to any member from inside that member's profile page. The 'Send Message' action link is located in the member profile page too. You can send an email message to any member whose profile appears in the 'Search Results' page. The 'Send Message' action link is located in the bottom of the member profile.

When you access your My Account page, the 'Inbox' section will let you know if you have received any new messages. The 'New Message' link will take you to the incoming mail inbox to review your new messages.
You can also view your received messages by clicking 'My Inbox' in the 'My Contacts' page. This will take you to your message inbox where you can view, reply to, and delete your messages.

Login to your My Account page. You have to go 'Inbox' section. From this section you can go to your Mail Inbox link where you can view, reply to, and delete your messages. You can reply by clicking the 'reply' link on the incoming email body.

When a member sends you a message, it goes straight into your onsite message Inbox. We then send an email to your personal email address to let you know that it's there. To view, delete and reply to this message you have to go to 'My Account' page and then go to 'My Contacts' and then 'My Inbox' link.
To read the messages, simply login to the site and go to your My Inbox, messages. If you decide to write back, simply click "reply", write your own message and send away. Your note will go straight into the member's onsite Inbox, and we'll let them know it's there with an email to their personal email address.
All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information until you feel completely ready. Then when you are ready, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person.

The number of response are depends on how actively your profile is complete. Please try to make sure, that your Profile Completion Score is close to 100% as possible. You should also make sure that you have filled in the Partner Preference section appropriately, and the number of Mutual Matches you see based on your 'Partner Preference '.
You can take these steps to get better response to the interests you send:
While finding a profile of your liking, you should also check their own Partner Preference. You will find this on their detailed profile page under “Partner Preference“. System will show in detail, the criteria where preferences match or not. You are suggested to send interests to people with matched criteria for better response.
Apart from this, you should ensure that you added your enough best photos, appropriate written about yourself and your family and that your profile is close to 100% complete. Profiles having more information tend to get better responses. Because other members will not miss anything about you.

Some members may not respond to your email messages. Although this can be quite frustrating, it could be due to a number of factors. To the member you are trying to reach may be busy with other members and is not interested in starting something new. The member may also elect not to respond to you because they are not interested in your profile or they do not see a attractive picture in your profile.
To improve your email reply success rate, it is important to have a well written profile with a minimum of grammatical errors. It is important to upload a good attractive picture of yourself. It is also important that your sent email to be interesting, polite, informative and pleasant to read. Failure to do the above will almost certainly result in less than satisfactory email reply results.
It is important for you to note that just because a member sent you an email message, it does not guarantee that the same member will answer your reply email message. This site is extremely active and people meet to other very quickly. Our best advice is for you to reply immediately to an email message that you receive before the (sending) member loses interest and /or moves on to the next member.

A separate section has been designed to help you to keep a track of the correspondence you have made as well as the correspondence being made to you. To check all the options just Login to your 'My Account' page.

This is our facility to ease off your effort to find a suitable match. There's a possibility that one or more interesting profiles which you would like to get back later, after you have finished the search.
You can add the profile to "Favorites List" through the link "Add To Favorites". There are two places from which to add a member to your favorites list. The first place is the 'Search Results' page. The 'Add to Favorites' feature is located just below the member's picture. The second place is the 'Member Profile' page, located top of the every profile's detail page. Simply click 'Add to Favorites' and that member will be added to your favorites list. The profiles which are bookmarked by you can be reviewed by you any time through the link "Favorites List" given in your "My Account" page.

Yes, we do send you the profiles whose attributes are in accordance with the “Partner Preference“ criteria specified by you as our endeavor is to do our best for you.

No. Your 'Personalized Message' remains in the folder for an unlimited period of time, until you closing your account.

When you delete your profile your all contact information will be deleted everywhere from MyBouma.com.

Our web Instant Messenger system is on the leading edge of the latest chat technology. It is reliable and easy to use. You can only communicate with members who are online and if they response. If the member is in internet, the online button indicator will be visible. You can launch the Instant Messenger module from two locations:

The first is from the Member Profile page, 'Chat Now' button is located at top of the every profile detail page. Click the button and the Instant Messenger module will appear. Start typing and click send.

The second place is from the Search Results page, 'Chat Now' button is located just below the member's picture. Clicking the button will launch the Instant Messenger module. Type your instant message and send.

Our Site is very active and it is not unusual for a member to have several windows open at the same time. We know that it seems like an eternity, but you have to be patient until they can get to your window and open it. This may take up to 3-4 minutes. Generally you will have faster access to the people in the first few online pages and who have logged on most recently. Please make sure your pop up blocker is disabled and that your system is enabled for flash chat.

Some members that you are trying to reach, may not respond to your chat attempts. This could be due to a number of factors. To the member you are trying to reach may be busy chatting with other members, they may have too many chat windows open, or may be away from their computer. The member may also elect not to respond to you because they are not interested in your profile or do not see a nice picture of you in the Instant Messenger chat window /profile.

To improve your chat success rate, it is important to have a well written profile with a minimum of grammatical errors. It is also important that you upload a good and attractive picture of yourself. Failure to do the above will almost certainly result in less than satisfactory chat response results.

Violating the Instant Messenger Chat System Terms of Use, regardless of your membership status, will result in the immediate cancellation of your membership and the immediate deletion of your profile. No refunds will be issued to deleted 'Paid Members'.

To access the Chat Lounge, simply click the Chat Lounge link in the My Account page. This will open the Chat Lounge module, where you can participate in group chat sessions. It is important for members to realize that due to the popularity and effectiveness of the Web Messenger Chat system, the Chat Lounge activity is very light. This service is restricted for Paid Members.

Our every effort to keep the site as free as possible from spam, scammers and people that use inappropriate language. Our efforts are much more effective with your help. We encourage and urge our members to report inappropriate language, inappropriate or suspicious behavior, and any other concern regarding another member. You can report a specific member by clicking the 'Contact Us' link located at the bottom of each member's profile.

In order to solve this problem, we provide a unique feature of "Templates". Here, you can save your own personalized messages as templates by selecting the check box provided under every personalized message box. The templates saved by you can be used, while sending Personalized Messages to any member

After login you will see the 'My Account' menu. The 'My Account' is your feature, from here you can go any page on the site and where important information about your membership and profile status are provided. In the My Account page has few important sections:

Change Password: Here you can change your Password. After you've made your changes, click on CHANGE or SAVE at the bottom of the page to save or change.

Profile Update: MyBouma.com provides you with a complete profile management system from the 'My Account' page located on the left, or top or bottom side of page of the site. From 'My Account' page, go to the 'Update Profile' link. From there, you can view and edit your personal information. In this section you can Update your profile. After you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

Inbox: This section divided into three parts, named 'Message', 'Sent Message' and 'Delete Message'. 'Message' part contains the email messages that you have received. From this part you can view your all messages including new unread messages. You can reply to, and delete your any message(s). You can reply by clicking the 'reply' link on the incoming email body. Here you can see, who viewed your profile. Here you can see who is interested about you. Here you can see, who send you interest. Here you can see, who expressed interest about you. Here you can see, who like your profile. Here you can see, who send you request.
'Sent Message' part contains the email messages that you have sent to others. From this part you can view your all messages that you have sent.
'Delete Message' part contains the email messages that you have deleted from 'Message' and 'Sent Message' part. From this part you can view your all messages that you have deleted.
To send the same Personalized Message to many members (or any member), you can see the previous sent message in email body, and use it. Just copy the message, paste it and send.

Update Partner Preference: This section is located on the left, or top or bottom side of 'My Account' page of the site. From 'My Account' page, go to the 'Update Partner Preference' link. From there, you can view and edit your partner preference information. Partner Preference means what type of life partner/spouse you want. It is very important to put the preferences what's you want. Not only that, you will get the response and match based on this preferences. In this section after you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

My Photo: This is your photo gallery. This section has your photo that currently appears in profile page. You can "Add Photo" or 'Delete Photo' from this section. In this photo gallery you can Add or upload upto 5 photos. After you've made your changes, click "Submit" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation. If you face any problem to add your photo or can not add then send your photographs via email to us, mentioning your 'Profiles ID' and email, from your email address. We'll add photograph at your profile.

Change Profile Photo: Profile photo means that is your main and mandatory photo. This section has your only one photo that currently appears in search results and profile pages. You can update your profile photo' from this section. After you've upload your photo or made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile picture will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation. If you face any problem to upload your photo or can not update then send your photograph via email to us, mentioning your 'Profiles ID' and email, from your email address. We'll add photograph at your profile.

Blocked List: There is one place to block another member to contacting you. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The block feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Block' button and that member will be prevented from sending you any message or emails. To unblock a blocked member, you have to come to 'My Account' page. Click the Blocked List, check the box of the member you wish to unblock and click the "unblock" button. To block a member from instant messenger, just click the BLOCK button in the IM(instant messenger) chat window.

Favorite List: There is one place to add a member to your favorites list. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The 'Add Favourite' feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Favorites' button and that member will added to your favorites list. To remove a member from your 'Favorites List', you have to come to 'My Account' page. In the 'Favorites List' check the box of the member you wish to remove from the list and click 'Delete.'

Chat Lounge/ Messenger: To access the Chat, simply click the 'Messenger' link in the 'My Account' page. Then will open the Chat Lounge page, where you can participate in chat sessions. It is important for members to realize that, due to the popularity and effectiveness of the Web Messenger Chat system, the Chat Lounge activity is very light.

Online Friend: This section is located on the top side of 'My Account' page. In this section you can see all of your Friend members who are currently in online. From this section you can search any specific online friend too. To chat with any friend just click on the 'Members Name or Picture' link in the right side of the page. The page that appears will show you all members of the opposite gender who are currently in online.

Log Out/ Sign Out: By clicking this link you will Log Out or Sign Out from the Site. This link is located on the top side of each page throughout the site and left side of My Account page.

Send Message: The 'Send Message' link is located in the member profile page. From this link you can send email message to the member. The 'Send Message' link is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page.

Match Alerts: Match alerts are system recommendations sent to you on the basis of your 'Partner Preference' and also on the history of your interest & acceptances. You may check these profiles and see if they are of interest to you and hence can contact the members accordingly. You can see the profiles of other members in your Profile Page whose partner profiles match with your personal profile. You will find this under 'Match Member' menu on the Profile Page.

Members in Online: This section is located on the top side of Home page. In this section you can see all members are currently in online.

Log in and Log out every time when you visit MyBouma.com keeps your account and personal information secure from access from unauthorized persons. Moreover, your information will be safe from vulnerable and tampering.

In addition, you can stay signed/logged in for all time, if you are not using share computer or devices.

Not to worry. You do not need your Profile ID to login. You can get your profile number from your 'My Account' page after Login at MyBouma.com. when you login to the site your Profile ID is displayed on top of the screen of 'My Account' page along with link to logout.

No. It is not so important for you, at all. MyBouma.com does not allow you to change your Profile ID since it is used as a unique identifier in several places within the system and Site.

Basically Username, Login ID, User ID, Email ID and Email address is same thing. All Members has to use their email address as a username. You can change your email address (username) or Password going to My Account page after login your account and then click on Change Password page to do. Here you can change your Email and Password. After you've made your changes, click on SAVE at the bottom of the page to save.

Nothing to worry about it. Username is your email address. Click on the link "Login" menu running in the header. In this Login page enter your "Username (Email address)" and click on the "Forgot Password?" link. Then enter your mobile number, date of birth and (type the answer) answer your security question which you provided in the time of create the MyBouma account and click on submit button. If your answer and date of birth is correct then you will get a temporary new password to your email with a link. After receiving your email, you have to follow (clicking on) the link, and login your account using that password, and you have to go to 'My Account' page to change your password; and then click on 'Change Password' page to do. We do everything for your information's utmost security. We appreciate your cooperation.

Password Security Tips
Create a strong alpha-numeric password and change it frequently as a practice.
Never share your MyBouma account information (user id, password) with anyone.
Password is case sensitive, hence recheck and enter it correctly in order to avoid inconvenience.
In case of any further issues, notify MyBouma customer support team immediately on 1.646.280.9950 (USA) or write to info@ MyBouma.com

Login to your Account and click the link "Change Email/Password" running under "My Account" heading and update your information. From My Account page click the "Profile Update" link to update your information.

1. Basic Search allows you to search for Profiles as per basic criteria like gender, age, religion, location, mother tongue etc.
2. By Religion and Caste allows you to quickly find partners on the basis of their religion and Caste.
3. Advanced Search option gives you more detailed search options. The options include height, education, marital status, whether they have children, complexion, etc.
4. By Location and Community option allows you to quickly find partners on the basis of the country and State they live in, or born and growing or living together in a specific habitat.
5. Search By Age allows you to find members with their age.
6. Profession Search allows you to search for matches based on the profession.
7. By Profile ID allows you to find members with their profiles number. You can use Profile ID search to locate particular Members on MyBouma.com.
8. Search By Who is Online option lets you search for Profiles who are currently online on MyBouma.com.
9. By Special Cases option allows you to search members with special cases. You can search for physically/mentally challenged Members.
10. By Mother Tongue option allows you to quickly find partners on the basis of their mother tongue.

The profiles are sorted on the basis of Last Login by default. Search results are shown by default using a developed custom algorithm. This is used to maximise responses to your Profile. In addition the various search options at MyBouma provide feature to sort profiles based on Newest members First (newest profiles are listed first).

'Match Alerts' are system recommendations sent to you on the basis of your Partner Preference and also on the history of your interests & acceptances. You may check these profiles and see if they are of interest to you and hence can contact the members accordingly. To see profiles of other members whose partner profiles match with your personal profile, Login to your My Account page. You will find this option under Match alerts.

Login to your My Account page. You will find this option under Match Alerts.

Yes you can. The shortlist feature is named in "Favorites List" to our site. MyBouma.com will help you to do this. To use this feature, you need to be Login. There are two places from which to add a member to your favorites list. The first place is the Search Results page. The 'Add to Favorites' feature is located just below the member's picture. The second place is in the 'Member Profile' page; 'Add to Favorites' link is located underneath of the member's profile summary. Simply click 'Add to Favorites' button and that member will be added to your favorites list.

Yes, you can. However please note that this feature can only be used to communicate with members on your accepted list.

Please review your partner preference and ensure its not too narrow/restricted.

The number of response are depends on how actively your profile is complete. Please try to make sure, that your Profile Completion Score is close to 100% as possible. You should also make sure that you have filled in the Partner Preference section appropriately, and the number of Mutual Matches you see based on your 'Partner Preference '.

You can take these steps to get better response to the interests you send:
While finding a profile of your liking, you should also check their own Partner Preference. You will find this on their detailed profile page under “Partner Preference“. System will show in detail, the criteria where preferences match or not. You are suggested to send interests to people with matched criteria for better response.

Apart from this, you should ensure that you added your enough best photos, appropriate written about yourself and your family and that your profile is close to 100% complete. Profiles having more information tend to get better responses. Because other members will not miss anything about you.

I am getting interests from irrelevant profiles. What can I do?

You can set ‘Filters’ on your criteria so that only relevant people are able to contact you, and if people do not meeting your criteria would be 'filtered out'. Generally ‘Filters’ has to be set on the 'Partner Preference' page itself automatically. Even if someone not meeting your criteria sends you an interest, all such interests would be sent to separate ‘Filtered Interests’ folder. You may review and accept such profiles at your discretion. Please note that “Filter ON” would mean that the Filters have been set & activated, whereas “Filter OFF” would indicate this is not set by you yet.

You can update your existing profile at any time you want. Just login to your My Account page and click on Profile Update link to edit the details you want to update.
After you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Any text changes you make to your profile will not be visible until we have been reviewed and approved by our editorial team. Your profile may be updated within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

Site Administrator has to check and approve all changes. When you edit your profile text, change password, change email address, add or delete pictures, the changes go into "pending review" status. This alerts site Administrator to review the changes. Once the changes are approved, then the new information replaces the old information. Your existing profile remains visible with the existing information until the new information is reviewed, approved, and then the new replaces the old.

The number of response are depends on how actively your profile is complete. Please try to make sure, that your Profile Completion Score is close to 100% as possible. You should also make sure that you have filled in the Partner Preference section appropriately, and the number of Mutual Matches you see based on your 'Partner Preference '.

You can take these steps to get better response to the interests you send:
While finding a profile of your liking, you should also check their own Partner Preference. You will find this on their detailed profile page under “Partner Preference“. System will show in detail, the criteria where preferences match or not. You are suggested to send interests to people with matched criteria for better response.

Apart from this, you should ensure that you added your enough best photos, appropriate written about yourself and your family and that your profile is close to 100% complete. Profiles having more information tend to get better responses. Because other members will not miss anything about you.

You can set ‘Filters’ on your criteria so that only relevant people are able to contact you, and if people do not meeting your criteria would be 'filtered out'. Generally ‘Filters’ has to be set on the 'Partner Preference' page itself automatically. Even if someone not meeting your criteria sends you an interest, all such interests would be sent to separate ‘Filtered Interests’ folder. You may review and accept such profiles at your discretion. Please note that “Filter ON” would mean that the Filters have been set & activated, whereas “Filter OFF” would indicate this is not set by you yet.

There are two places from which to block another member from contacting you. The first place is the 'Search Results' page. The block feature is located right below that member's picture. The second place is the 'Member Profile' page, right underneath the member's profile summary. Simply click the 'Block the Member' button and that member will be prevented from sending you any message or emails. To unblock a blocked member, you have to come to My Account page. Click the Blocked List, check the box of the member you wish to unblock and click the "unblock" button. To block a member from instant messenger, just click the BLOCK button in the IM (instant messenger) chat window.

There are two places from which to add a member to your favorites list. The first place is the Search Results page. The 'Add to Favorites' feature is located just below the member's picture. The second place is in the 'Member Profile' page; 'Add to Favorites' link is located underneath of the member's profile summary. Simply click 'Add to Favorites' button and that member will be added to your favorites list. To remove a member from your 'Favorites List', you have to come to My Account page. In the 'Favorites List' check the box of the member you wish to remove, from the list and click 'Delete.'

Please review your desired partner preference and ensure its not too narrow/restricted.

'Match Alerts' are system recommendations sent to you on the basis of your Partner Preference and also on the history of your interests & acceptances. You may check these profiles and see if they are of interest to you and hence can contact the members accordingly. To see profiles of other members whose partner profiles match with your personal profile, Login to your My Account page. You will find this option under Match alerts.

Please note that Duplicate (more than one) profile creation for any reason is not allowed on the site, and system will automatically remove multiple profiles. So keep only one profile in search. Another important things is your Email address. Your Email address acts as your Username/ Login ID at the site. So you can not use same Email address for more than one profile. If you need help, please call us or write to us at info@ MyBouma.com.

Basically Username, Login ID, User ID, Email ID and Email address is same thing. All Members has to use their email address as a username. You can change your email address (username) or Password going to My Account page after login your account and then click on Change Password page to do. Here you can change your Email and Password. After you've made your changes, click on SAVE at the bottom of the page to save.

After login you will see the 'My Account' menu. The 'My Account' is your feature, from here you can go any page on the site and where important information about your membership and profile status are provided. In the My Account page has few important sections:

Change Password: Here you can change your Password. After you've made your changes, click on CHANGE or SAVE at the bottom of the page to save or change.

Profile Update: MyBouma.com provides you with a complete profile management system from the 'My Account' page located on the left, or top or bottom side of page of the site. From 'My Account' page, go to the 'Update Profile' link. From there, you can view and edit your personal information. In this section you can Update your profile. After you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

Inbox: This section divided into three parts, named 'Message', 'Sent Message' and 'Delete Message'. 'Message' part contains the email messages that you have received. From this part you can view your all messages including new unread messages. You can reply to, and delete your any message(s). You can reply by clicking the 'reply' link on the incoming email body. Here you can see, who viewed your profile. Here you can see who is interested about you. Here you can see, who send you interest. Here you can see, who expressed interest about you. Here you can see, who like your profile. Here you can see, who send you request.
'Sent Message' part contains the email messages that you have sent to others. From this part you can view your all messages that you have sent.
'Delete Message' part contains the email messages that you have deleted from 'Message' and 'Sent Message' part. From this part you can view your all messages that you have deleted.
To send the same Personalized Message to many members (or any member), you can see the previous sent message in email body, and use it. Just copy the message, paste it and send.

Update Partner Preference: This section is located on the left, or top or bottom side of 'My Account' page of the site. From 'My Account' page, go to the 'Update Partner Preference' link. From there, you can view and edit your partner preference information. Partner Preference means what type of life partner/spouse you want. It is very important to put the preferences what's you want. Not only that, you will get the response and match based on this preferences. In this section after you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

My Photo: This is your photo gallery. This section has your photo that currently appears in profile page. You can "Add Photo" or 'Delete Photo' from this section. In this photo gallery you can Add or upload upto 5 photos. After you've made your changes, click "Submit" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation. If you face any problem to add your photo or can not add then send your photographs via email to us, mentioning your 'Profiles ID' and email, from your email address. We'll add photograph at your profile.

Change Profile Photo: Profile photo means that is your main and mandatory photo. This section has your only one photo that currently appears in search results and profile pages. You can update your profile photo' from this section. After you've upload your photo or made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile picture will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation. If you face any problem to upload your photo or can not update then send your photograph via email to us, mentioning your 'Profiles ID' and email, from your email address. We'll add photograph at your profile.

Blocked List: There is one place to block another member to contacting you. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The block feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Block' button and that member will be prevented from sending you any message or emails. To unblock a blocked member, you have to come to 'My Account' page. Click the Blocked List, check the box of the member you wish to unblock and click the "unblock" button. To block a member from instant messenger, just click the BLOCK button in the IM(instant messenger) chat window.

Favorite List: There is one place to add a member to your favorites list. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The 'Add Favourite' feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Favorites' button and that member will added to your favorites list. To remove a member from your 'Favorites List', you have to come to 'My Account' page. In the 'Favorites List' check the box of the member you wish to remove from the list and click 'Delete.'

Chat Lounge/ Messenger: To access the Chat, simply click the 'Messenger' link in the 'My Account' page. Then will open the Chat Lounge page, where you can participate in chat sessions. It is important for members to realize that, due to the popularity and effectiveness of the Web Messenger Chat system, the Chat Lounge activity is very light.

Online Friend: This section is located on the top side of 'My Account' page. In this section you can see all of your Friend members who are currently in online. From this section you can search any specific online friend too. To chat with any friend just click on the 'Members Name or Picture' link in the right side of the page. The page that appears will show you all members of the opposite gender who are currently in online.

Log Out/ Sign Out: By clicking this link you will Log Out or Sign Out from the Site. This link is located on the top side of each page throughout the site and left side of My Account page.

Send Message: The 'Send Message' link is located in the member profile page. From this link you can send email message to the member. The 'Send Message' link is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page.

Match Alerts: Match alerts are system recommendations sent to you on the basis of your 'Partner Preference' and also on the history of your interest & acceptances. You may check these profiles and see if they are of interest to you and hence can contact the members accordingly. You can see the profiles of other members in your Profile Page whose partner profiles match with your personal profile. You will find this under 'Match Member' menu on the Profile Page.

Members in Online: This section is located on the top side of Home page. In this section you can see all members are currently in online.

You can update most of the information in your profile. However, there are some info (your e-mail address, date of birth, name, gender, and religion) which can be changed only in extraordinary/ exceptional circumstances. This can be done only on request to our support team, supported by valid reason(s) and/or necessary evidence.

There are several things you can do to improve your chances of getting contacted.
Add an attractive recent photo of yourself to your profile. This is one of the most effective step you can take to generate high viewership.
Take time to fill your Personal Details as accurately and completely as possible. Spend time to writing more about your qualitative aspects - aspirations and goals, attitude towards life, your family and your hobbies

In order to delete your profile, write to the site Administrator through the 'Contact Us' link located at the bottom of the page. Request that your profile be deleted. You must include your Username (registered email address), password, profile number, mobile number, date of birth; and (type the answer) answer your security question that you have provided to create your MyBouma account. This process will protect you from unauthorized deletion of your profile. If your provided all information including your answer and date of birth is correct then you will get a temporary cancellation confirmation to your email with a link. You have to follow the link and login your account using your Username and password, and you must have to cancel your subscription on My Account page, then click on 'Cancel My Membership' button and post your feedback to let us know the exact reason for withdrawing your membership.

Congratulations, We are very pleased and thrilled that you have now entered in matrimony. We would be very happy to receive details about your happy news and share it with other members of MyBouma.com Matrimonials. Click here to send us your Success Story.

Yes, it is. You have to attach at least one photograph.

To add your photo to your profile please follow these steps.
1. Login to your My Account page.
2. Click on My Photos > Browse and follow the instructions on the page to upload your photograph.

To remove your photo on MyBouma.com all you need to do is:
1. Login to your My Account page.
2. Click on My Photos > Select the radio button in front of photograph you wish to delete and click the Delete button.

Yes you can. You can add photograph to your profile from two places. First place is from the Registration page and secondly you can add photo by login your account through My Account page. Inside the My Account page you have to click the My Photos and then Click the "Browse" Button inside this panel. This will take you to the files on your computer where your pictures are stored. Select the storage file in your computer and select the appropriate picture you want to upload. Select or Double click the picture in your computer file. This will prepare it for uploading. Click 'Upload'. Your photo is now uploaded and ready for review and approval by our editors. To load more than one photo, repeat the process described above for each one of the photo. You may load up to 5/8 photos in your profile. Alternatively if you face any problem to add your photo or can not add then you can send us your photograph via email mentioning your profile's user ID and email. Email it to us info@MyBouma.com from your email. We'll add photograph at your profile.

We suggest you to upload the photo by below steps (DESKTOP):
• Login to your profile
• Click on Photos available on main (desktop) page
• Click on photo and select a photo from gallery, camera, Facebook
• Select and upload. The photo will get uploaded and will be made visible to other member within 24-48 hrs.
We suggest you to upload the photo by below steps (for APP):
• Login to your profile
• Click on Photos from highlight bar
• Click on Photo Option, select photo from gallery, Facebook, camera.
• Select and upload. The photo will get uploaded and will be made visible to other member within 24-48 hrs.

Images in .jpeg/.jpg, .png & .gif format and under 500 kb in size can be easily uploaded. Following are three ways by which you can attach/add the photo for your profile.

(1) At the time of posting (registration) your profile. Just browse your photo and upload it.
(2) Any time from your 'My Account' page. Login to your My Account page. Click on "Add / Edit Photo" given under "My Photos" heading and upload your photos. A total of 5/8 photos can be uploaded.
(3) In either case, if you face any problem to add your photo or can not add then you can send us your photograph via email mentioning your profile's user ID and email. Email it to us info@mybouma.com from your email. We'll add photograph at your profile.

You may use .jpg, .jpeg, .gif and .png format. There are no limits on picture proportions, because our system will automatically resize your pictures but under 500 kb in size can be easily uploaded. Large picture files may have difficulty to uploading quickly. If you have difficulty to upload a picture, please reduce the size of the picture and upload again. We specifically requires only our members picture. We cannot approve pictures of actors, singers, models, children, nature scenes, flags, animals or inanimate objects. Loading undressed and otherwise offensive or inappropriate photos will cause in the immediate deletion of profile. Definition of any of the above is at the sole discretion of the site Administrator.

Our analysis has found that a matrimonial profile with photo greatly increases the number of times it gets viewed and interest it receives. So upload a nice photo at least, to increase your chances of finding your partner quickly. Moreover, for security reason we need a photo to save.

Yes you can. We allow members to set profile photo from any album photo, but we reserve the right to select any profile photograph that shows of decency. To do this select radio button in front of the photo that your wish to set as Main Photo and click on “Set as Main Photograph” button.

.jpg/ .jpeg is the most popular digital image formats on the internet. MyBouma.com appreciate these image formats for photos on your matrimonial profile, but you can upload .gif and .png format also.

MyBouma.com reviews all uploaded photographs by members. While we allow members the ability to upload their photographs, we reserves the right to remove/delete any photograph that violates norms of decency. It usually takes us around 1-2 days to screen your photos, during this period your photos will show as 'coming soon'.

You can set ‘Filters’ on your criteria so that only relevant people are able to contact you, and if people do not meeting your criteria would be 'filtered out'. Generally ‘Filters’ has to be set on the 'Partner Preference' page itself automatically. Even if someone not meeting your criteria sends you an interest, all such interests would be sent to separate ‘Filtered Interests’ folder. You may review and accept such profiles at your discretion. Please note that “Filter ON” would mean that the Filters have been set & activated, whereas “Filter OFF” would indicate this is not set by you yet.

There is one place to block another member to contacting you. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The block feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Block' button and that member will be prevented from sending you any message or emails. To unblock a blocked member, you have to come to 'My Account' page. Click the Blocked List, check the box of the member you wish to unblock and click the "unblock" button. To block a member from instant messenger, just click the BLOCK button in the IM(instant messenger) chat window.

There is one place to add a member to your favorites list. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The 'Add Favourite' feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Favorites' button and that member will added to your favorites list. To remove a member from your 'Favorites List', you have to come to 'My Account' page. In the 'Favorites List' check the box of the member you wish to remove from the list and click 'Delete'.

MyBouma.com is committed to provide you with a safe and secure platform in where you search and find your life partner. MyBouma.com verifies every user’s mobile number, email address and also ensures that every user profile undergoes basic screening. While we do our best to identify and delete inappropriate profiles. Some users might deliberately enter incorrect information, misrepresent themselves and get their profiles live on site. We help our users discover the best matches but it is in the interests of a user to use their best judgment to assess another person’s genuineness and interest in marriage.
We strongly recommend all our members to beware of the following:

1. If a user asks for personal favors like transportation of goods, deposit of funds on their behalf, lend them some money etc. We encourage and urge our members to report immediately by clicking the ‘Report Abuse' or 'Report this User to Administrator’ link is located at the bottom of each member's profile and cease communication with the user.
2. Interacting with fake or copy sites which may look similar but are actually owned by people who may have malicious intent. Many sites have a similar appearance as MyBouma.com but they are not in any way related or affiliated to MyBouma.com. Please check the URL of the site (it should be www.MyBouma.com) that you are visiting. Please note that, MyBouma.com is a wing of Listy1.com, is a subsidiary of BD World Group Inc whose purpose is to build a better life through happy marriage.
3. Representatives from these fake sites may reach out to you to seeks some money of membership fee or for registering your profiles. Exercise caution and alert our customer service, if and when this happens.
4. Unknown callers pretending to call from the MyBouma team asking for your user ids and passwords to login to your account. Please note that MyBouma never asks for user password information either on phone or in person. So never share your login details (especially password) with anyone. In case you face any of the above situations or come across a probable fake profile, immediately notify us on 1646-280-9950 (USA) or info@ MyBouma.com
5. Our every effort to keep the site as free as possible from spam, scammers, and people that use inappropriate language. Our efforts are much more effective with your help. We encourage and urge our members to report inappropriate language, inappropriate or suspicious behavior, and any other concern regarding another member. You can report a specific member by clicking the ‘Report Abuse' or 'Report this User to Administrator’ link located at the bottom of each member's profile.
6. If a user appears to have entered false, incorrect information about their profession, income, family etc., mark such profiles as ‘Report Abuse' or 'Report this User to Administrator’ and refrain from contacting that user.
7. Never share your financial details with any member like bank account number, online banking credentials, credit card details etc. and be wary of those who ask for money from you. Use well judgment and do not take any decision in a hurry.
8. MyBouma.com takes credit card fraud very seriously. Discovery that any member has used a stolen or fraudulent credit card will result in the notification of the appropriate law enforcement agencies.
9. When you find, meet with prospective partners in a safe place and inform to your family or friends about the meeting. Do not go alone, try to go with someone.
10. Do a thorough background research about the person before any commitment.
11. You expressly understand and agree that if any member that you are in communication with on this site requests your assistance to transfer money, requests money from you for travel assistance, medical assistance, subsistence or for any other reason; it is almost certainly a scam or a fraudulent scheme and you are in a high risk of being defrauded. You will report such request along with the username of the requesting member immediately to the Site Administrator through the CONTACT us link at the bottom of each page. You can report a specific member by clicking the ‘Report Abuse' or 'Report this User to Administrator’ link located at the bottom of each member's profile.

Your contact information will always be hidden to members for the sake of security. We will keep your contact information inaccessible until your approval.

We understand the need for privacy on your profile. While we recommend that you opt to show your Phone Number for receiving maximum responses, we have provided Privacy Settings against each of your Number (Mobile, Landline and Alternate Mobile).
Here is how you can change your Privacy Settings:

Desktop Site
1. Login to your My Account page.
2. Click on 'Profile Update' > Select the 'Contact Details' section. This will open the 'Contact Details' form. All the phone numbers you have entered on MyBouma will shown here. Against each phone number, you will see a 'gear' icon and 'Edit' button, by side. 'Gear' icon means, from where you may do your 'Privacy Settings' option 'Visible to All' or 'Visible on Acceptance'. If you do not choose any option, then automatically it will be visible for all. If you choose the option 'Visible on Acceptance', only your accepted members will be able to see your Phone Number. Please note that your phone number will still be visible to accepted members.

Mobile Site or Android App
1. Click on the 'three lines' on top right/left to open the Menu.
2. Scroll down and click on 'Login' link to go to your 'My Account' page.
3. Click on 'Profile Update' > Select the 'Contact Details' section. This will open the 'Contact Details' form. All the phone numbers you have entered on MyBouma will shown here. Against each phone number, you will see a 'gear' icon and 'Edit' button, by side. 'Gear' icon means, from where you may do your 'Privacy Settings' option 'Visible to All' or 'Visible on Acceptance'. If you do not choose any option, then automatically it will be visible for all. If you choose the option 'Visible on Acceptance', only your accepted members will be able to see your Phone Number.
Please note that your phone number will still be visible to accepted members. Make sure that you have the latest version of Android App installed on your phone.

iOS App
1. Click on 'Profile Update' on the menu (present on bottom right)
2. Scroll right till you reach the 'Contact Details' section.
3. Against each phone number, you will see a 'gear' icon and 'Edit' button, by side. . 'Gear' icon means, from where you may do your 'Privacy Settings' option 'Visible to All' or 'Visible on Acceptance'. If you do not choose any option, then automatically it will be visible for all. If you choose the option 'Visible on Acceptance', only your accepted members will be able to see your Phone Number. Please note that your phone number will still be visible to accepted members.

Dear User,
We believe our customers deserve peace of mind. MyBouma undertakes every possible method necessary to ensure a secure environment. We use an advanced fraud prevention system and routine member checks to provide the highest level of internet protection.
MyBouma.com is committed to provide you with a safe and secure platform in where you search and find your life partner.

• We reserves the absolute right to modify or amend or delete, any contents of matrimonial listing, especially those relating to prohibition of any improper, indecent, unlawful or obscene content.
• Our team ensures that every photograph put up at MyBouma.com is screened before being shown.
• We also have strict abuse-prevention policy. We aim to remove any such profiles immediately upon being reported to us.
• We record IP address information of users for all interaction that they have with the website.
To ensure your safety and privacy, were limited to actions that are within our control. So, it is necessary to strictly follow some simple precautions for your privacy and secure experience.

Here are some advice, you can follow to improve your safety and privacy.
1. Do not reveal your contact information in your profile
2. Protect your anonymity
3. Use emails initially
4. Start relation slowly
5. Do thorough background research
6. Use our Instant Messenger system
7. Use our chat lounge
8. Exchange your contact info at safe position
9. Chat on the phone at comfortable stage
10. Meet, when you are ready
11. Meet in a safe/public place
12. Do not go and meet alone
13. At first time- do not meet your home, business or job place
14. Watch for warning signs
15. Watch for inconsistencies
16. Beware of money scams
17. Avoid uncomfortable situation
18. Use your good judgment
19. Use a strong alphanumeric password
20. Be cautious about fake or copy sites
21. Report about Spam or inappropriate contact

Our every effort to keep the site as free as possible from spam, scammers and people that use inappropriate language. Our efforts are much more effective with your help. We encourage and urge our members to report inappropriate language, inappropriate or suspicious behavior and any other concern regarding another member. You can report a specific member by clicking the "Report Abuse or Report this User to Administrator" link located at the bottom of each member's profile.

If you do have an unpleasant experience with any members we request you to report it to the authorities as soon as possible. In case of any further issues immediately notify us on 1646-280-9950 (USA) or info@ MyBouma.com

MyBouma.com, is one of the leading and most trusted matrimonial service provider in the world; it offers best matchmaking services. MyBouma.com is a portal committed to help people worldwide to find their desired life partners.

If you still haven't found what you are looking for then MyBouma.com will your right place to find it. MyBouma.com will find out all the member profiles matching your Profile and display the matches when you give your search criteria. Then you can contact any member via email through MyBouma. Finding the right life partner is one of the most important and difficult tasks of one's life. Our aim is to help you in the process of finding your perfect partner. We do everything we can to achieve this goal. We will do everything we can to help find you the perfect match.

Yes, we do provide matchmaking services. You have to register on the site to get this services.

Our every effort to keep the site as free as possible from spam, scammers, and people that use inappropriate language. Our efforts are much more effective with your help. We encourage and urge our members to report inappropriate language, inappropriate or suspicious behavior, and any other concern regarding another member. You can report a specific member by clicking the Contact us page and this link located at the bottom of each page.

'My Matches' works according to the 'Personal Information' of your profile and your 'Partner Preference' of the profile page. Based on the information you provided, our system automatically match potential partner for you. You will also receive periodic emails from MyBouma.com with the partner profile that matches your desire.

The most likely reason could be that the Partner Preferences that you have created is not very specific. To receive more suitable matches and contacts make your Partner Preferences more specific.

There can be many reasons why you are not receiving many responses. The most likely reason could be that the Partner Preferences that you have created is not very specific. To receive more suitable matches and contacts make your partner preferences more specific. It is possible that your Profile does not match the member's matrimonial requirements specified in his/her Partner Preferences. Also, perhaps the member may be more interested with other partners at this time.

It is also a good idea to check what the member is looking for in his/her partner, before expressing interest in the member.

After login you will see the 'My Account' menu. The 'My Account' is your feature, from here you can go any page on the site and where important information about your membership and profile status are provided. In the My Account page has few important sections:

Change Password: Here you can change your Password. After you've made your changes, click on CHANGE or SAVE at the bottom of the page to save or change.

Profile Update: MyBouma.com provides you with a complete profile management system from the 'My Account' page located on the left, or top or bottom side of page of the site. From 'My Account' page, go to the 'Update Profile' link. From there, you can view and edit your personal information. In this section you can Update your profile. After you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

Inbox: This section divided into three parts, named 'Message', 'Sent Message' and 'Delete Message'. 'Message' part contains the email messages that you have received. From this part you can view your all messages including new unread messages. You can reply to, and delete your any message(s). You can reply by clicking the 'reply' link on the incoming email body. Here you can see, who viewed your profile. Here you can see who is interested about you. Here you can see, who send you interest. Here you can see, who expressed interest about you. Here you can see, who like your profile. Here you can see, who send you request.
'Sent Message' part contains the email messages that you have sent to others. From this part you can view your all messages that you have sent.
'Delete Message' part contains the email messages that you have deleted from 'Message' and 'Sent Message' part. From this part you can view your all messages that you have deleted.
To send the same Personalized Message to many members (or any member), you can see the previous sent message in email body, and use it. Just copy the message, paste it and send.

Update Partner Preference: This section is located on the left, or top or bottom side of 'My Account' page of the site. From 'My Account' page, go to the 'Update Partner Preference' link. From there, you can view and edit your partner preference information. Partner Preference means what type of life partner/spouse you want. It is very important to put the preferences what's you want. Not only that, you will get the response and match based on this preferences. In this section after you've made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation.

My Photo: This is your photo gallery. This section has your photo that currently appears in profile page. You can "Add Photo" or 'Delete Photo' from this section. In this photo gallery you can Add or upload upto 5 photos. After you've made your changes, click "Submit" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation. If you face any problem to add your photo or can not add then send your photographs via email to us, mentioning your 'Profiles ID' and email, from your email address. We'll add photograph at your profile.

Change Profile Photo: Profile photo means that is your main and mandatory photo. This section has your only one photo that currently appears in search results and profile pages. You can update your profile photo' from this section. After you've upload your photo or made your changes, click "Update" at the bottom of the page to save. Your profile picture will activate within 48 hours after checking by us. We can accept your update or deny or ask you for more proof or documentation. If you face any problem to upload your photo or can not update then send your photograph via email to us, mentioning your 'Profiles ID' and email, from your email address. We'll add photograph at your profile.

Blocked List: There is one place to block another member to contacting you. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The block feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Block' button and that member will be prevented from sending you any message or emails. To unblock a blocked member, you have to come to 'My Account' page. Click the Blocked List, check the box of the member you wish to unblock and click the "unblock" button. To block a member from instant messenger, just click the BLOCK button in the IM(instant messenger) chat window.

Favorite List: There is one place to add a member to your favorites list. The place is the 'Member Profile' page. The 'Add Favourite' feature is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page. Simply click the 'Add Favorites' button and that member will added to your favorites list. To remove a member from your 'Favorites List', you have to come to 'My Account' page. In the 'Favorites List' check the box of the member you wish to remove from the list and click 'Delete.'

Chat Lounge/ Messenger: To access the Chat, simply click the 'Messenger' link in the 'My Account' page. Then will open the Chat Lounge page, where you can participate in chat sessions. It is important for members to realize that, due to the popularity and effectiveness of the Web Messenger Chat system, the Chat Lounge activity is very light.

Online Friend: This section is located on the top side of 'My Account' page. In this section you can see all of your Friend members who are currently in online. From this section you can search any specific online friend too. To chat with any friend just click on the 'Members Name or Picture' link in the right side of the page. The page that appears will show you all members of the opposite gender who are currently in online.

Log Out/ Sign Out: By clicking this link you will Log Out or Sign Out from the Site. This link is located on the top side of each page throughout the site and left side of My Account page.

Send Message: The 'Send Message' link is located in the member profile page. From this link you can send email message to the member. The 'Send Message' link is located just on the top side of the Member Profile page.

Match Alerts: Match alerts are system recommendations sent to you on the basis of your 'Partner Preference' and also on the history of your interest & acceptances. You may check these profiles and see if they are of interest to you and hence can contact the members accordingly. You can see the profiles of other members in your Profile Page whose partner profiles match with your personal profile. You will find this under 'Match Member' menu on the Profile Page.

Members in Online: This section is located on the top side of Home page. In this section you can see all members are currently in online.

Congratulations, we are happy to hear that. When you found your match, please delete the profile and cancel the subscription. In addition, please share your happy success story with MyBouma.com (us).

While upgrading your profile to Paid membership, you may choose from select range of add on services. These are means that add value to your profile, and hence improve your partner search and responses of people.

Yes, you can choose from a list of Add-on services that add value to the profile and hence better your visibility and responses on the site. Please click on the UPGRADE section to get more information.

In Assisted Services, our Relationship Manager/Expert Matchmaker will work on your profile. Based on your preference, the Matchmaker will search, short list, screen and select the best profiles for you. The matching profiles will be sent to you through email or sms or courier on a regular basis. The Matchmaker will help you connect with the shortlisted matches. He (she) will understand your profile and search requirements in detail, so that our Relationship manager can approach the members matching to your criteria and share only interested/ accepted matches with you once a week. Relationship manager further calls prospects to gauge their interest levels in your profile and if you are also interested then she/he can arrange communication between you and the other prospect and coordinate meetings between both the families.
Durations of this service are 1 month, 3 months, 6 months, 9 months and 1 year. Services start at USD $150 or Tk 9000/-

We provide the below mentioned Add-on Services. Both Members can additionally promote their Profile via Add-on Services. Both Free Basic and Paid Members can enjoy the benefits as described below.

1. Assisted/Personalized Services:
In Assisted Services, our Relationship Manager/Expert Matchmaker will work on your profile. Based on your preference, the Matchmaker will search, short list, screen and select the best profiles for you. The matching profiles will be sent to you through email or sms or courier on a regular basis. The Matchmaker will help you connect with the shortlisted matches. He (she) will understand your profile and search requirements in detail, so that our Relationship manager can approach the members matching to your criteria and share only interested/ accepted matches with you once a week. Relationship manager further calls prospects to gauge their interest levels in your profile and if you are also interested then she/he can arrange communication between you and the other prospect and coordinate meetings between both the families. Duration of this service are 1 month, 3 months, 6 months, 9 months and 1 year. Starting Service charge is USD $150 or Tk 9000.

2. Featured Listing:
This is a promotional unique feature. This marvelous Advertisement service is only for our members. Featured Listing Profiles are displayed on both in Home Page as well as Search result page. Duration of this service are 1 month, 3 months, 6 months and 1 year. Starting Service charge is USD $60 or Tk 3000. This service is used to Boost your Profile and get more responses through Profile Boost. Get featured on top of search results. Your profile will be sent daily in app notifications and Appear on top of Daily Recommendations.

3. Elite Listing :
This is a promotional feature. This wonderful service is only for our members. Elite Listing makes your Profile stand out in a Search result page amongst thousands of other Profiles and increases your chances of being contacted. Elite Listing feature profiles are start from top of relevant Search results and your Profile will be made bold whenever it appears in Search results. Duration of this service are 1 month, 3 months, 6 months and 1 year. Starting Service charge is USD $40 or Tk 2000.

4. Highlight Profile:
This promotional feature service is only for our members. Highlight Profiles are displayed on right side of Search results page, vertically and your Profile will be Highlighted whenever it appears. Being featured here increases your chances of being contacted by 10 times! Duration of this service are 1 month, 3 months, 6 months and 1 year. Starting Service charge is USD $50 or Tk 2500.

5. First 10 Profiles:
This is a promotional unique feature. This amazing service is only for our members. These Profiles are displayed on Search Results page. This service is used to Boost your Profile and get more responses through Profile Boost. Highlight your profile in different color and get more exposure. Get featured on top 10 of search results. Your profile will featured on among the first 10 of Search Results. Duration of this service are 1 month, 3 months, 6 months and 1 year. Starting Service charge is USD $95 or Tk 5000. Avail this feature to show your interest in selected matches faster.